Hello everybody, hope you all are doing great. To my engineering friends, am sure you all might be having a hell of enjoyment in the Tech-Fest Season. Well coming to the point, this time I again have a topic pertaining to marriages, specifically Hindu Marriages. This time no Arrange, no love, just marriages this time. Everybody might be well aware about the Indian custom of swearing 7 promises (called Saptpadi in Sanskrit, Sapt means Seven, Padi means foot) at the time of wedding. Born as a Brahmin, I have always been inquisitive about all Hindu rites\u00a0and rituals and 7 promises made during a Hindu wedding\u00a0held a special position among\u00a0those curiosities. I had always been under a spell of knowing as well as seeing a couple swear those 7 promises around the holy fire and know their significance. I referred the scriptures pertaining to the rituals in Sanskrit and their translation and I feel proud to be a part of such an amazing culture. Once you\u2019re done reading this blog post, you will be captivated in entirety by Indian Culture and customs. Without mulch ado, here I go:<\/p>\n

Hindu wedding is all about rituals and customs, which teach us the actual essence of a blissful\u00a0married\u00a0life. The seven vows of marriage symbolize seven promises, which are sworn by the bride and the groom during the auspicious ceremony of wedding. These seven promises are not just taken in the presence of a few hundreds of people, but the Hindu customs ensure that even the Gods and Goddesses, the five elements of nature, the earth and the whole universe are a part of every Hindu wedding. So thoughtful have been the Vedas in devising these customs have no doubt our elders term marriages as an eternal\u00a0bond transcending beyond births. The asceticism in which a couple is bound during those 7 promises is just seamless\u00a0for any power in the universe to contain.<\/p>\n

With the commencement of the ritual, a holy fired is sparked in the havankund<\/em> (the holy fireplace) which comprises of wood and ghee (cow manure later). Now the sages who had devised the Vedas were so thoughtful that they had explicitly mentioned the reason for comprising the havankund with Wood and Ghee<\/em> only. It is scientifically proved that the combustion of wood in presence of ghee generates such gases which protect the ozone layer. The reason for this lies in benevolence and the good-will that the ritual incorporates. The sages believed that the nature gives us almost everything for our survival, but what do we give in return? Hence we return ozone to the atmosphere which serves as a protective shield to the atmosphere. So thoughtful is the beginning of the Seven Promises!<\/p>\n

Moving ahead – the fire, around which the seven vows are sworn by the couple. Have you all ever thought about this? Why take seven promises around fire only? What is so special about fire? Some might argue that fire being one of the five constituents of Panch-Maha-Bhoot<\/em> or Panch Tatva\u00a0<\/em>(5 natural elements of which the human body is believed to be made up of according to Hindu Mythology). But these 5 elements comprise of wind, earth and water also. Why not take seven promises around them? Fire is special because, fire is the factor which bonds the couple in an eternal bond of marriage and it is the only power capable to separate husband and wife i.e. once a person is dead, his\/her dead body is burnt on the pyre according to Hindu rituals. Therefore, it\u2019s the fire which bonds two people and it\u2019s the fire only which can separate them. This not only\u00a0symbolizes\u00a0the importance of holy fire, but this also declares that a married couple is inseparable by any human powers\u00a0and conjoined by God himself .<\/p>\n

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After fire, comes the seating\u00a0arrangement before the 7 promises. Before the 7 vows are sworn the bride and the groom are seated on chairs and some chants are recited by the priests. Now Vedas are so particular about the ambrosial event of marriage that they decide the seating position of the bride and the groom in such a way that they get the maximum possible blessings from the nature in all its forms. \u00a0Generally, before taking the seven vows, the bride is seated to the right hand side of the groom. After taking the 7 promises, the bride shifts to the left side of the groom – this symbolizes that she is now closer to his heart. How exquisite! Every custom which is put in the wedding ceremony has a unique significance, which when enlightened just leaves us with our jaws dropped.<\/p>\n

Now after lighting the holy fire and reciting some mantras, the bride and the groom are\u00a0asked to stand up to take 7 rounds around the holy fire. Each round stands for a unique promise. The holy fire is the witness of all these promises. How solicitous have the Vedas been! They do not entitle the humans to be the witness of such a pious ceremony like wedding, but they pass the hat to the nature, the superpower to be witness of the eternal union of two souls. Now the main event\u00a0begins – the seven promises. Here they are:<\/p>\n

First Promise:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Initiating the promise, the groom says that their love has become firm by taking the first step. He promises to provide everything for her as well as family\u2019s welfare and happiness.<\/p>\n

In return, the bride happily takes the responsibility of home, food and finances. She hereby promises to satiate all her responsibilities for the welfare of the household, family and the children.<\/p>\n

Second Promise:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Initiating the second vow, the groom promises to protect the bride and the family by all his strength in god\u2019s name.<\/p>\n

In return the bride promises that at all times, she shall continue to fill his heart with strength and courage. She promises to be his strength and stand by him in all tough and turbulent times.<\/p>\n

Third Promise:<\/strong> (Too Enchanting!)<\/p>\n

In the third promise, the bride accepts the groom as her husband and promising this she says that every man in her life will be secondary for her. Her husband will be all and all for her in this whole universe. (Guys this is what you call COMMITMENT!!! You will see this in INDIA only…)<\/p>\n

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In return, the groom accepts the bride as his wife and promises\u00a0for their prosperity and wealth as a couple. He also wishes good up-bringing for their children.<\/p>\n

Fourth Promise:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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In the fourth promise, the groom confesses that she has brought sanctity and auspiciousness in his life. He prays to God to bestow him and her with good children and grant them a long life.<\/p>\n

In return the bride promises to acquire happiness and harmony via respect, faith, mutual love and understanding.<\/p>\n

Fifth Promise: <\/strong>(What a Wonderful Definition to Marriage)<\/p>\n

Giving the fifth promise, the groom accepts her has his best-friend<\/em><\/strong>. The bride promises to honour the groom with all the respect and love she can.<\/p>\n

Sixth Promise:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Taking the sixth round around the holy fire, the groom wishes for her happiness and the bride commits to stand by his side always.<\/p>\n

Seventh Promise:<\/strong> (The best of all)<\/p>\n

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The bride promises that she has become his spouse by the law of God, holy fire and the Holy Scriptures. The promises she has made have been spoken with pure heart and pure mind. All the angels are witnesses to this fact. She shall neither deceive him nor will she ever let him down.<\/p>\n

Finishing the promise ceremony, the groom promises the bride that by walking this seventh step with her, their love and companionship have become inseparable and eternal. They have experienced spiritual union in God. Now she has become completely his. He offers his total self to her.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

These were the 7- Seven Promises made by the bride and the groom to each other at the time of wedding. If you have read these attentively, then you might have just noticed that these seven promises encompass every dimension of human life beginning from the life after marriage to the death. The promises include every sphere of marital life- be it family, household, finances, children, adversities, difficulties, loyalty, companionship, strength, weakness, everything. The seven promises are nothing but a microcosm of the life the couple has to see after their marriage. The seven promises make sure to unite the couple eternally then and there amidst a divine atmosphere. Above all, they make all the Terrence agencies a part of the wedding- be it God, be it nature, be it any supernatural force of this universe.<\/p>\n

This was all I had to share about 7 promises. I bet if a couple follows even 1% of these 7 promises, the word divorce would vanish away from the society. But ironically, the scenario today is these 7 promises can sustain their existence till the wedding ceremony only. After that, it\u2019s all on god\u2019s mercy and nature\u2019s fury. God bless everybody…<\/p>\n

I hope you all have liked reading it as much as I have liked writing and compiling it. Suggestions and Feedback welcomed.<\/p>\n

Love & Regards,<\/p>\n

Anish.<\/p>\n

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